FRE$H BREAD MONEY BLOG  

HOME

 

 

Week of May 1

 

Friday, May 5, 2006

Women Want Wine for a Song

 

        Giving new meaning to the term “controlling woman,” it’s well known in marketing circles that women control 80 percent of the purchasing decisions in America households. Now here’s a new twist on that stat:  A Time magazine article a few weeks ago titled “Of Wine and Women” cites consumer surveys that prove that women make 55 percent of the wine purchases in this country. The article also quotes a wine auctioneer who claims that women look for good value when shopping for vino, as opposed to men, who read up on best vintages and consult guides like the Wine Spectator before plunking down big bucks to impress the ladies.

            This shopping predilection comes as no surprise to women, of course. A couple of years ago, this Web site published a delightful memoir of one woman’s first experiences as a collector of wine: It’s a Very Good Year . . . to Start Your (Frugal) Wine Cellar: A Connoisseur Shares Her Tips for Investing in Bottled Pleasure.”  And in the “Biz Whiz” column of our January/February 2005 issue, we profiled a woman who started a winery catering to the female palate (“We Heard It Through the Grapevine: Vintage Advice from a Savvy Businesswoman Who Has Found Ways to Help Other Women”). Read about Kathy Charlton and her Olympic Cellars winery in this free download of that vintage MAKING BREAD issue. It’s a great issue, containing, among other articles, a piece on the best business for stay-at-home moms (hint: it has something to do with children) and a chronicle of a recent college graduate’s first year in the workforce. In “Oh, My God, I Just Ate a Marc Jacobs Bag!” this graduate tells readers “how to deal with touchy-feely bosses, spend less, fight for fair pay and other money lessons learned during my first year out of college.” It was written by Amber Fairweather, the intern mentioned in Wednesday’s blog entry, who just got hired at Time-Warner. (To gain access to other “vintage” MAKING BREAD issues, purchase a $2.95 three-day pass to our Issue Download Center.)

            After you’ve enjoyed the issue, head on over to www.olympiccellars.com to order a bottle of Charlton’s “Working Girl” wines. With names like Go Girl Red and Rose the Riveter, they’re sure to put a smile on your face. Good value and good taste can be found in  $15 to $20 bottles from Italy, France and Germany, according to New York Times wine critic Eric Asimov. Check out his entertaining blog, “The Pour,” at http://thepour.blogs.nytimes.com/.

            Whatever you’re drinking, let’s all raise a glass to a terrific weekend!

 

Prosper & enjoy,

Gail Harlow

 

 Read More    |    Add Your Comments     |   Send to a Friend

 

Thursday, May 4, 2006

R.I.P-ed from the Headlines

 

            R.I.P Louis Rukeyser, who died this week, at age 73. The Street-wise host of PBS’s Wall Street Week, known for his witty financial commentary, always delivered with an unmistakable twinkle in his eye, provided the just plain folks of Middle America an understandable and entertaining source of information about mutual funds, junk bonds, blue chips, T-bills and other market mysteries. Wall Street Week debuted in 1970 and ran for 32 years.

            Women looking for savvy sources of information about the stock market today can go to www.chickslayingnesteggs.com or www.wfn.com. The former site was founded by 10 self-proclaimed “Chicks” who searched “high and low for a site that was only for women, only about investing, and easy to understand. Oh, yeah, and it had to be fun. We wanted to learn how to invest in the stock market without it involving a lot of risk, or taking up too much of our time. We've figured out that the best way to do all of this is through an online investment club.” They’ve created “a place to come, bring your girlfriends, hang out, and begin to learn about investing” by forming your own online club. All sorts of tools are provided free of charge.

            The more sedate Women’s Financial Network (www.wfn.com) was founded by Muriel Siebert, who made history in 1965 by becoming the first female member of the New York Stock Exchange. You can’t form an investment club here, but you’ll find a lot of advice and information about investing, and you can open your own investment account.

            To end on a slightly macabre note, I also recommend checking out the New York Times Obituary page, online at http://www.nytimes.com/pages/obituaries/index.html, which I stumbled upon while looking up Rukeyser’s obituary. What a roster of accomplished dead women I found there (the page also lists Golden Oldies from the Times’ archives)! You can read the obituaries for Marlene Dietrich, Joan Crawford, Rita Hayworth, and Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. You’ll also find Jeannette Rankin, the first woman to serve in Congress (and the only Representative to vote against our country’s entry into World Wars I and II), who died in 1973 at the age of 92; and Mrs. C. J. Walker, the first Black woman millionaire, who died in 1919 at the age of 51.

            And let’s not forget Elma Gardner Farnsworth, who helped her husband, Philo, develop television, though he gets the credit in the history books. Elma died this Tuesday at the age of 98. Rukeyser, who made his fortune as a star on that little black box, is probably thanking her right now.

 

Prosper & enjoy,

Gail Harlow

 

 Read More    |    Add Your Comments     |   Send to a Friend

 

Wednesday, May 3, 2006

Is That Your Best Offer?

 

            Amber, one of MAKING BREAD’s interns from a couple of summers ago, e-mailed me yesterday to tell me that she just got a job at Time-Warner. I’m not surprised. She’s creative, sensitive, smart and hard-working. Any publishing company would be lucky to have her on its staff. She’d been looking for a job for a while and was thrilled to finally land a position in her industry of choice. I hope that she worked up the courage to ask for an increase on the compensation package the company offered her. A simple “Is that your best offer?” would serve to get the conversation started.

            It doesn’t hurt to ask, and, according to Linda Babcock, Carnegie Mellon University economics professor and co-author of “Women Don’t Ask,” men are four times more likely to ask for a raise on their first job offer than men are. This reticence can end up costing women half a million dollars over the course of their careers. Just think about it: every subsequent raise and promotion you receive is based on that first salary figure. Say you get a four percent raise in your second year on the job. Four percent of $40,000 is $200 more than four percent of $35,000. That may not sound like a lot, but over time the difference widens. The more money you make when you’re young the more you can afford to save, and the earlier you start saving the more time your money will have to earn compound interest and grow into a comfortable nest egg.

            I figure now is a good time to mention this statistic, with students getting ready to graduate from college and look for their first jobs this month. Pass it on, if you know someone who’s beginning to knock on employers’ doors. Visit www.salary.com to research competitive salaries in the profession of your choice.

            In the “Burnt Toast” department: Jeers to CBS chairman Les Moonves’ sexist quote in a New York Times article about the new CW television network yesterday. When asked what sort of innovative programming viewers might expect to see on CW, he quipped: “At CBS scheduling meetings, I always say: Don't fall in love with the new girl; don't get carried away. With the CW, I might say: It's O.K. to fall in love with the new girl, instead of the old wife."

            Yes, unfortunately, that kind of tired “old wives’ tale” (and other subtle forms of sexism) are things this year’s crop of female job seekers will also have to contend with in the halls and boardrooms of corporate America. Moonves should have taken a cue from one of the series likely to make it to the CW schedule: "She Said, He Said," starring Jessica Simpson's soon-to-be “old husband,” Nick Lachey.

 

Prosper & enjoy,

Gail Harlow

 

 Read More    |    Add Your Comments     |   Send to a Friend

 

Tuesday, May 2, 2006

Listen to Your ‘Inner Angel’

 

            Is anyone besides me turned off by that irritating Capital One TV commercial featuring an overweight, incompetent guardian angel who goofs off while the young woman he’s supposed to be protecting gets bashed and battered by various avoidable accidents? The only time he steps up to the plate is when he whispers in her ear to use her Capital One card, instead of some other, less rewarding piece of plastic. It’s one more example of the recent trend in extreme advertising using physical humor or slapstick to shock you, repulse you, or make you laugh—anything but change the channel. Personally, I prefer a more subtle, seductive approach. You’ve gotta woo me if you want my money. I suspect most women are with me on that.

            Most credit cards these days are offering some sort of reward program or incentive to get customers to charge more dough. The rewards they offer in exchange for your dollars often have limits and can easily be eclipsed by the interest rates and penalty fees that accrue if you pay only the minimum or don’t pay on time.

            But I don’t want to focus on reward cards today. I’m really more interested in guardian angels. We all have one, you know. Call it a “sixth sense” or “women’s intuition.” There is a voice inside our heads that knows what we should be doing with our lives at any given moment. We just need to teach ourselves to tune in to it. Minutes before I broke my leg 20 years ago (a multiple fracture that left me in a cast for six months), my inner angel told me that I was getting tired, running with my dogs in the yard, and that I should call it quits. Listening to my “inner child,” instead, I decided to take one more run, ended up slipping and falling on the wet November grass, and I regret my stubbornness to this day. But that mishap taught me to pay attention to my inner angel.

            She’s telling me things now, as I pursue the next steps in my career, and I make a point of listening for her voice, though sometimes I have to strain to hear her whispers over the noise in my mind. There’s nothing mystical about it; it’s really the better, smarter, part of me cutting through the clutter and doubts, to guide me. As I get older, my  inner angel seems to get wiser.

            We all have other voices in our heads, too: there’s our inner critic—that uber- perfectionist  “mean girl” who makes us feel like we’re worthless sometimes. I’ve taught myself to drown her out with my inner cheerleader, complete with pom-poms, who tells me not to be so hard on myself and to focus on my successes.          

            Sometimes I have to play referee and stop the girl fight in my head before the blood flows. Now that might make for a funny commercial!

 

Prosper & enjoy,

Gail Harlow

 

 Read More    |    Add Your Comments     |   Send to a Friend

 

Monday, May 1, 2006

The Clout of Money

 

            Are you planning to frolic around a May Pole today? Or will you march for immigrants’ rights? Either activity would be appropriate, given the dual history of May Day, known, from pagan times, as a celebration of the rites of spring and, from the 1800’s, as a celebration of workers’ rights and contributions.

            On this day, I’m wallowing in the beauty of nature outside my door. It’s lilac time here in Pennsylvania, and the scent from those heavy blossoms is so complexly, intoxicatingly sweet that not even Coco Chanel could bottle it. As I contemplate the various political rallies and marches in support of immigrants’ rights planned for this “Day Without Immigrants,” as well as various other headlines in the news, one thought penetrates the haze: Money is power. No matter how much or how little money you have, you wield power in how you choose to spend—and not spend—it. When enough people withhold their money, it sends a powerful message. The shopping boycott immigrants protesting their threatened status plan for today is the most effective tool they have going for them.

            Here’s another example of money clout: Thousands rallied in Washington yesterday in support of international action against the genocide taking place in the Darfur region of Sudan. George Clooney, who has put his money behind this cause, urges people to write the White House and Congress, demanding that our Government take action to save the people of Darfur. (Visit www.savedarfur.org for a quick, easy e-mail link to voice your concern, as well as information about the crisis.) But a national student-led group called the Sudan Divestment Task Force is taking even more effective action, lobbying universities and municipalities across the country to divest their pension funds of investments in companies doing business with the Sudanese government. Hit them in the pocketbook, where it hurts.

            On another front, closer to home, some have called for gas boycotts around the country, which may work to lower prices by lowering demand.  A more practical grassroots solution to soaring gas prices might be to organize car pools for school and after-school activities, as well as work commutes. (My husband has been car-pooling to work for almost a year now.) Or travel via mass transit, as I do. Stopped at a traffic light of a major intersection this weekend, I was struck by how many cars passing in front of me contained only one driver—all traveling in the same direction.

            On this May Day, when many of us are crying “mayday”—the international distress call—over current economic and political developments, it’s good to remember that money is power, every dollar like a vote in this capitalist democracy. We speak volumes when we spend our money consciously, thoughtfully. Use it to send a message wherever, whenever you can.

 

Prosper & enjoy,

Gail Harlow

 

 Read More    |    Add Your Comments     |   Send to a Friend

If you like the blog, you’ll love the book.

 For more savvy finance advice, buy 

“Making Bread: The Ultimate Financial Guide for Women Who Need Dough,”

 by Gail Harlow and Elizabeth Lewin, available on Amazon.com and at your local bookstore

 

 

 

 

 

Send mail to webmaster@makingbreadmagazine.com  with comments about this Web site.

   copyright © 2006 MAKING BREAD Magazine | www.newhart.com

MAKING BREAD and MAKING BREAD:The Magazine for Woman Who Need Dough are trademarks of Reggai Productions LLC.

Reproduction of material from any MAKING BREAD pages
without written permission is strictly prohibited. MAKING BREAD Privacy Policy & Disclaimer.

Web Development by NCS, Inc.

Last Updated 11/07/2006 03:39